The rule, in plain English
First find what is being acted on. Replace that thing with lo, la, los, or las: Tengo el libro becomes Lo tengo. Then find the receiver—to whom?—and use le or les: Le doy el libro. When both appear, put the receiver first and change le or les to se: Se lo doy, never Le lo doy. These short words normally go before a changed verb.
Why it's hard for English speakers
English says I give it to her, with both parts after give. Spanish puts them before the verb and orders them receiver + thing: Se lo doy. Lo or la matches the thing—el libro becomes lo; la carta becomes la—not the person receiving it.
Worked examples
Start with these worked examples, then reveal more when you are ready.
- ¿El mapa? Lo tengo en la mochila.The map? I have it in my backpack.Replacing the thing: Lo replaces the masculine singular direct object el mapa.
- ¿La reserva? La confirmo ahora.The booking? I'll confirm it now.Replacing the thing: La replaces the feminine singular direct object la reserva.
- ¿Los billetes? Los compramos por internet.The tickets? We buy them online.Replacing the thing: Los agrees with the masculine plural noun billetes.
- ¿Las llaves? No las encuentro.The keys? I can't find them.Replacing the thing: Las replaces the feminine plural direct object las llaves.
- Ana me llama cada domingo.Ana calls me every Sunday.Replacing the thing: Me is the first-person singular direct object: Ana calls whom? Me.
- Os veo desde la ventana.I can see you all from the window.Replacing the thing: Os represents vosotros/as as the direct object.
- Mi abuela me cuenta una historia.My grandmother tells me a story.Naming the receiver: Me is the recipient of the story and therefore the indirect object.
- Te mando un mensaje esta tarde.I'll send you a message this afternoon.Naming the receiver: Te identifies the person receiving the message.
- Le explicamos el problema a la profesora.We explain the problem to the teacher.Naming the receiver: Le is required for the recipient; a la profesora clarifies who le means.
- El guía nos enseña la ciudad.The guide shows us the city.Naming the receiver: Nos is the group receiving the guide's explanation or showing.
- Les escribo a mis padres cada semana.I write to my parents every week.Naming the receiver: Les is plural because the recipients are mis padres.
- El libro se lo doy a Juan.I give the book to Juan.Receiver and thing together: Le + lo becomes se lo; a Juan makes the recipient clear.
Direct-object pronouns: what or whom?
| Person or thing replaced | Pronoun | Example |
|---|---|---|
| Yo | me | Ana me ve. |
| Tú | te | Ana te ve. |
| Él/Ella / masculine or feminine thing | lo / la | Ana lo/la ve. |
| Usted | lo / la | Ana lo/la ve. |
| Nosotros/as | nos | Ana nos ve. |
| Vosotros/as | os | Ana os ve. |
| Ellos/Ellas / masculine, mixed, or feminine plural | los / las | Ana los/las ve. |
| Ustedes | los / las | Ana los/las ve. |
Indirect-object pronouns: to or for whom?
| Recipient | Pronoun | Example |
|---|---|---|
| Yo | me | Ana me escribe. |
| Tú | te | Ana te escribe. |
| Él/Ella | le | Ana le escribe. |
| Usted | le | Ana le escribe. |
| Nosotros/as | nos | Ana nos escribe. |
| Vosotros/as | os | Ana os escribe. |
| Ellos/Ellas | les | Ana les escribe. |
| Ustedes | les | Ana les escribe. |
Two pronouns together
| Meaning | Combination | Result |
|---|---|---|
| to me + it | me + lo/la | me lo / me la |
| to you + it | te + lo/la | te lo / te la |
| to him/her/you + it | le + lo/la | se lo / se la |
| to us + it | nos + lo/la | nos lo / nos la |
| to you all + it | os + lo/la | os lo / os la |
| to them/you all + it | les + lo/la | se lo / se la |
Where object pronouns go
| Structure | Position | Example |
|---|---|---|
| One conjugated verb | Before the verb | Lo compro. |
| Conjugated verb + infinitive | Before the first verb or attached to the infinitive | Lo voy a comprar / Voy a comprarlo. |
| Conjugated verb + gerund | Before the first verb or attached to the gerund | Lo estoy buscando / Estoy buscándolo. |
| Affirmative command | Attached to the command | ¡Cómpralo! |
| Negative command | Before the command | ¡No lo compres! |
Common mistakes
- Le lo doy.Se lo doy.Le or les changes to se immediately before lo, la, los, or las.
- Tengo lo.Lo tengo.With one conjugated verb, place the object pronoun before it.
- La doy un regalo a Marta.Le doy un regalo a Marta.Marta is the recipient, so standard Spanish uses the indirect-object pronoun le.
- Voy a lo comprar.Lo voy a comprar / Voy a comprarlo.Place lo before the conjugated verb or attach it to the infinitive, not between a and the infinitive.
Practice
¿La carta? ___ escribo.
I have it (el libro) = ___ tengo.
Le + lo = ___ lo
I give it to her = ___ lo doy.
¿Los billetes? ___ compro en línea.
I write to my parents = ___ escribo a mis padres.
Ana gives me the key = Ana ___ da la llave.
We buy them (las entradas) = ___ compramos.